April 25, 2011
Everyone who has ever worked in India will tell you : never assume some things needn’t be explained. Say it. And say it again. And again.
If there is one place where I never forget this, it’s at the dry cleaner.
I’ve had a few bad experiences with dry cleaners in Jaipur. One burnt a
motherfucking Prada very precious dress. The other one turned a white sari pink.
The one I use now, appropriately called Snowhite, is ok. But that’s because I’m not taking any chance.
I always, always tell Mr Snowhite how delicate and fragile my clothes are and can they please be extra careful. I always, always tell them not to use any starch and to never put any sort of red-hot iron in contact with the fabric. Steam – that’s what they are allowed to use on my clothes, and nothing else.
Oh, don’t worry, it’s all done in great spirit. They think I am nutcase but then, so do a whole lot of people.
Everytime I go to Snowhite Dry Cleaners, I dutifully repeat the same serenade, over and over again. I am convinced that the day I don’t, something awful is going to happen. And so I go on, begging them to look after my clothes as if it was their grandmother’s heirloom petticoat.
As I said, they are ok dry cleaners, but it also helps that I never bring into Snowhite Dry Cleaners any really, really dirty clothes.
Indeed the only time I did – a silk chiffon blouse with a huge BBQ sauce stain courtesy a Castiburger (= best burger in Paris), the blouse came back with a slightly faded but nonetheless visible version of the original stain.
I blamed it on the Castiglione’s
delicious nasty orange sauce but then the other day, while handing over my clothes, I watched them check for stains. And I had an epiphany.
In Europe, the dry cleaner checks your clothes for stains so that he knows what stuff to use, and so that you both agree beforehand whether there is, or not, a stain on your blouse.
But as I watched them I realized : these guys are not checking for stains to establish their existence with me, or to figure out which product to use. What they are thinking, and I can hear it loud and clear, is this :
…” Do we really need to clean that one ?”
October 23, 2010
Let’s start with Why is It That People Call it a Big Flu.
Like flu, dengue fever is a virus. And like flu, it comes with bouts of high fever.
Now if you don’t mind, let’s go over the differences.
1) Transmission : you don’t catch dengue from someone. You catch it from something. Namely, a mosquito.
2) Time : a solid flu lasts 4 to 5 days. Dengue can last up to 3 weeks.
3) Element of Cosiness : flu means winter in Europe, too much snowballing, central heating and mummy making hot soup for you. Dengue, on the other hand, is a dirty country disease spread by stagnant water mosquitoes.
4) Blood : Unlike flu, dengue requires that you monitor your platelet count on a daily basis – they do fall dramatically.
5) Organs : Unlike flu, dengue also requires that you undergo a full abdomen sonography to check that your vital organs have not been affected by the disease and the eventual internal bleeding a very low platelet count can cause.
6) Rash : Unlike flu, dengue fever comes with a delightful, itchy rash.
7) Bone-ache : Ok, the flu sometimes makes your bones ache. A little. Not constant splitting bone-ache for 4 days. Nope. That’s dengue.
8 ) Pukish fever : the fever that comes with dengue is so intense, it makes you feel nauseous.
9) Pukish fluids : because you have to ingest tons of fluids, dengue makes you feel like throwing up. 7+8 = you do end up throwing up at some point.
10) Retro-orbital pain : unlike flu, dengue gives you excruciating retro-orbital pain, ie: it hurts to move your eyes. So no books and no dvd for you. Not surprisingly then, dengue is tough on the troops morale.
11) Oh, and before I forget : dengue is a bi-phasic disease. Meaning that when you start feeling better and your platelet count rises again, the fever comes back.
Now, the next person who tells me I just have a big flu, I cry.
October 14, 2010
Today is the last day of the Commonwealth Games. The fact that it’s a bank holiday (in Delhi) isn’t really surprising.
Why not. Adults deserve their CWG candy too. After all, weren’t all the schools in Delhi shut for two weeks ?
India put on a damn fabulous show for these Games. We all remember the horror pictures of the Athletes Village a couple of days before the opening ceremony. The collapsing bridge, etc. The whole world was laughing, Indians were mortified. But then the opening ceremony turned out to be lovely and everyone here clapped and gasped and blamed the mean, mean firang journalists badmouthing their country. All you need, in the country of the thousand lives, is is a few fireworks.
Nevermind that the stadiums were empty, that 50 swimmers got water-poisoning, and that the Athletes Village toilets overflowed ( due to thousands of condoms blocking the pipes, may I add ). Nevermind, nevermind.
Oh but I had this exact conversation a few days ago with an Indian. He blamed the foreign press for all the bad things.
“Well, the bridge did collapse” I ventured.
“It happens, you know, it happens” he commented.
“I guess you’re right, I’m sure a lot of bridges collapsed in the 1860’s”.
“But the thing is, ok, so we didn’t foresee the monsoon rains, the river was high, you know, it happens.”
What I wanted to say then was : yes, the monsoon has only been happening for the last 2,000 years, how could anyone foresee it?
But I didn’t say anything, I said the Games were damn good, and I thought : for all their candour, these guys do have tremendous pride in their country, who am I to question it ?
And if not working is their way to show their appreciation, so be it, so be it.
October 13, 2010
When you walk into my building, two very Indian things welcome you.
First, the queen-of-the-night bush at the gate. With its tiny white flowers and heavenly smell, it is, indeed, just too lovely.
The second thing, right after you pass the flowers, is Nosy Nightie.
Nosy Nightie lives on the ground floor of my building. I have never seen her dressed other than in polyester nightgowns. She must have been beautiful in her younger days but now, in her late forties, she’s kind of lost her aura. However, she still moves and speaks with utter confidence, haughty as a doll.
Nosy Nightie doesn’t work. Luckily, she has found an activity that certainly fulfills her life like no regular work would. Spying. Nosy Nightie doesn’t simply sit out watching everyone’s move. That, my friend, would be amateur spying. No. Nosy Nightie asks, questions, interrogates.
Every single time I come home and she’s sitting out, she asks me : “Where did you go?”. And everytime I go out she barks: “Where are you going?”.
The first time, I was taken aback. Mind your own fucking nightgown, I thought. But I still mumbled “To a friend’s”.
“Who ? Where ?” she fired, looking agitated.
Whacko lady, stay away from me.
Since then, she doesn’t get a word out of me beyond hello. I just shoot huge smiles and pretend I’m deaf.
One night I came back at two and I swear she was watching out of her kitchen window.
But she hasn’t given up, firing her questions at the top of her voice, as if I was a witness escaping from her custody.
Nosy Nightie has the soul of Mata Hari. Jaipur is probably too small for her and my life, to her adventurous mind, highly disappointing.
November 4, 2009
Yes, it its true, I have been deserting my much-loved blog. I am so sorry!
The reason is, I simply don’t have time. I am overworked, and although being busy with work is an exhilarating feeling, I do miss my daily blogging break.
But today is a special day: exactly a year ago I wrote my first post.
I remember it so well.
I had just been kicked out of my flat, lost my job and was going through a bitter and painful breakup. My ex-boss was refusing to pay my severance fee, I was broke, and sleeping on a mattress on the floor of my new flat, I went paler and paler wondering what I was going to do with my life, my heart and the 35 cardboard boxes scattered around the flat. I remember it so well.
That’s when I started this blog.
It gave my days a structure – I would write first thing in the morning. And it made me happy. The amazing feedback I got was unexpected and wonderful.
Now it’s been a year and how things have changed. After months of fighting, I finally got my severance fee. I designed, sold, produced and exported my first line of jewellery. I have my own company in India, complete with hundreds of codes, numbers, certificates and bill books. I don’t date Indian men anymore. And my flat might not be spectacular, but it’s pretty, cosy and colorful. And it has beds.
Dear reader, my apologies for this display of self-satisfaction, believe me I am not fishing for compliments here. I am just truly, genuinely, completely amazed. It is incredible what can happen, in only a year, if you fight for it.
Oh, and since November 4th 2008, this blog has registered 32,854 hits. That’s 1,314 times more than what I would have ever dreamt of.
October 19, 2009
The Diwali madness is nearly over and I am coming out of hiding. Or rather, of my blogging exile.
Last week, I enquired about the exact extent of the Diwali holidays.
“Well – my workshop manager said. You see, on Friday is Choti Diwali.”
Choti Diwali, literally, “Little Diwali”, is the day before Diwali. It’s a holiday, and the craziest day of the year: people shop like mad. Clothes, sweets and firecrackers are being bought en masse. The traffic is total, loud, intense chaos.
“Then Saturday of course is Diwali. Sunday, it doesn’t matter because it’s a Sunday anyway, but it’s Govardhan Puja, very important puja.”
“Great. Does that mean we can work on Monday?”
“Noooooooo! Monday is the brother-sister festival.”
“But that’s Rakhi, that’s in August!”
“No, not Rakhi. Rakhi is when sisters go to their brothers. On Monday, brothers go to their sisters. It’s called Bhai Duj.”
“And it’s a bank holiday.”
“But of course.”
“What about Tuesday?”
“Tuesday is a holiday too.”
“Oh, come on, I pleaded. what for?”
“Well, just to rest.”
September 25, 2009
The reason, well one of the reasons why I was sulking is that Gossip Girl season 3 is out. And it sucks.
The girls are wearing crap clothes, the intrigue is about as thrilling as a boiled potato and the overall urge to slap the characters has now taken over the outraged, confusing fascination seasons 1 & 2 managed to convey.
I want to cry.
To make up for it, I have bought books. Oh yes, lots of them. Because although I have a TV, you won’t be surprised to know that I don’t know how to use it.
But why, will you ask, am I in desperate need of entertainment?
Because, my friends, Diwali is looming on the horizon. Diwali, the Hindu New Year, with its firecrackers, endless parties, extravagant gambling sessions, shopping frenzy, Las Vegas street lights, constant ringing bells and echoeing prayers, Diwali with its madness, its overwhelming spirituality and sickening materialism, Diwali, the one and only, is coming up.
On the 17th of October.
To my mild amusement, the workers have already disappeared. The Bengalis have gone en masse to celebrate Durga Puja. The Muslims have not come back from Eid. And the Hindus have switched the pre-holiday gear. For the next month, it will be very, very difficult to get any work done.
Just about as difficult as getting me to watch TV.
Hence, I am stocking up on books.
Anyone for a mountain trip?